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Joined: A long time ago... Posts: 327 Location: New South Wales, Australia |
Date: 2006-08-13 22:49:09 Topic: Re: I am all fucked up today. I need some advice... |
| Man, why do you keep posting about how fucked up you feel? It's only going to make you feel worse. It might just be a thought, but to an extent I think you like being all sad and mopey, like how sympathy might help you feel like your feelings are justified. Don't take this wrong way, but I don't feel sorry for you. I don't know you and I don't know what has happened (along with a good percentage of everyone else) this is yet another reason for why you want some sort of closure that no one can actually rightfully dish out... But flatlanders are a strong breed, and the will to move on to something else all in the name of progression is what you should be striving for. So get up, put your head on, and get in the right frame of mind. It happens to nearly all of us. :wink: I feel sorry for people who do not drink. When they wake up in the morning it is as good as they are going to feel all day. _Frank Sinatra, US actor & singer (1915 - 1998) | |
Joined: A long time ago... Posts: 669 Location: Norristown, Pennsylvania  |
Date: 2006-08-14 09:02:44 Topic: Re: I am all fucked up today. I need some advice... |
| Yeah, I know you are right. I was just using this as a place to vent. You guys don't need to hear about this anymore. If I told you guys the whole story, you would realize why I am fucked up more than normal here. Thanks for all your advice. Club Homeboy Forever! Fubar for Life! Monolithic Entertainment Monolithic MySpace  | |
Joined: A long time ago... Posts: 120 Location: Roy, Wa |
Date: 2006-08-15 23:36:57 Topic: Re: I am all fucked up today. I need some advice... |
Best advice for a situation like this. This board is a ton nicer than some other's I'm on, most of the others I'm a member of would have told you to eat a bullet and get it over with, not the best advice to give to someone who's already emotional. | |
Joined: A long time ago... Posts: 669 Location: Norristown, Pennsylvania |
Date: 2006-08-16 08:00:16 Topic: Re: I am all fucked up today. I need some advice... |
| At least I have ruled out the bullet eating thing. I know most of you guys are very young and see breakups as an opportunity to find a better opportunity. When you are 34 and have lost the woman of your dreams, the one you wanted to spend the rest of your life with, it's a little bit harder to take. Impossible to replace. When you get to this stage of life, you'll see what it's like. Here I am talking like a bitch again.. Someone please stop me. Club Homeboy Forever! Fubar for Life! Monolithic Entertainment Monolithic MySpace | |
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Date: 2006-08-16 17:15:36 Topic: Re: I am all fucked up today. I need some advice... |
| I say vent as much as you feel like. If you dont have somewhere you can get your frustration out your going to take it out on yourself in less than desirable ways. IE eating a bullet for lunch. Rant, rave, go nuts, its the internet! If they dont like it, they dont have to read it. Rant away and you'll be okay :lol: | |
Joined: A long time ago... Posts: 669 Location: Norristown, Pennsylvania |
Date: 2006-08-18 21:00:16 Topic: Re: I am all fucked up today. I need some advice... |
| I am close to finding a job so at least that is better news. The rest of it is pretty much the same. I wake up from a good dream, realize it's back to reality, exist all day job hunting, check mail, check myspace, check pedal, have some kind of emotional breakdown, don't eat, drink some ice tea or jaeger, stay up way too late hoping to cause enough exaustion so I don't dream, eventually pass out and the whole process starts again. Rinse, lather, repeat. At least I am thinner. Been doing push ups and pull ups like a madman. And not a lot of food. Club Homeboy Forever! Fubar for Life! Monolithic Entertainment Monolithic MySpace | |
Joined: A long time ago... Posts: 898 Location: Wind-sore, Ontarible |
Date: 2006-08-18 22:39:27 Topic: Re: I am all fucked up today. I need some advice... |
| edogg2k4, After reading your posts, I need to share that I went through the same situation a couple of years back. The similarities in sentiment and behaviour are almost total. So check out that book if you want, it helped me. Also, I was fortunate enough at the time to see my school shrink for free and she got me to start doing this relaxational breathing excersise that really helped--but it also took a lot of dedication, the effects were kind of aggregational. I too droped a bunch of weight, started running a ton (that's a good releaver). There's probably not much anyone will be able to say to make things any better. You just get a little stronger each day. There is a ritual I read about called the "Anima Shrine" that dealt with re-integrating those parts of yourself that are still stuck on her; if you are interested you may be able to find something about it online. Best wishes man. Hang in there. | |
Joined: A long time ago... Posts: 669 Location: Norristown, Pennsylvania |
Date: 2006-08-19 01:40:53 Topic: Re: I am all fucked up today. I need some advice... |
| Brandon, thanks for your words. I really don't know what I am doing or what I am going to do. I guess once I have a plan then I'll be on the road to, not being insane? I'm fighting sleep pretty good now. 4:37AM and counting. I feel like I am against Freddy Krueger except my Freddy is a gorgeous brunette who invades my dreams with a french manicure instead of finger knives. Club Homeboy Forever! Fubar for Life! Monolithic Entertainment Monolithic MySpace | |
Joined: A long time ago... Posts: 437 Location: Lawton Oklahoma =D!!! |
Date: 2006-08-23 19:31:52 Topic: Re: I am all fucked up today. I need some advice... |
| same boat right now i havent had a good nights rest in about 2 weeks i miss her to much everything i do reminds me of her only we didnt break up she moved i barely talk to her due to problems soon to be fixed i hope im going nuts cause i want to be with her but i cant and i dont want her to just start over and lose contact with me or anyone ...im not a serious relationship kinda guy and i had girlfriends move and id get over it in like 2 weeks but this has been almost a month and shes still on my mind....i dated her for 8 months not long for some people but it is with me seeing how i dont date much...and she ment the world to me ehh what can you say though wish for the best i wish i could listen to my own words erfgggggg? | |
Joined: A long time ago... Posts: 669 Location: Norristown, Pennsylvania |
Date: 2006-08-23 20:47:55 Topic: Re: I am all fucked up today. I need some advice... |
| I know just what you mean. Hey, I had my car repossessed today, that's good news! Oh, wait its really, really, really bad news what am I thinking. At least in the future when I am on Oprah, or Maury Povitch I can explain just how low my low was before my meteoric success. I am also tailoring a comedy routine around being poor. For example, how many of you guys have been so poor that you were forced to eat all the things in the fridge or pantry that have been there forever? For example, I ate a whole jar of marichino cherries in one sitting. I once bought a box of Graham Cracker crumbs (for baking) that I thought were just the regular crackers, well the other day I gusted that box open and ate all the crumbs with a spoon. Truly, truly pathetic. Club Homeboy Forever! Fubar for Life! Monolithic Entertainment Monolithic MySpace | |
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