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well my girlfriend moved today she left for france at 9 in the morning its hard seeing her board a plane and see it just leave knowing shes not gonna be back
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Joined: A long time ago...

well my girlfriend moved today she left for france at 9 in the morning its hard seeing her board a plane and see it just leave knowing shes not gonna be back
  :cry:

Joined: A long time ago...

Thanks again boys for the advice.  I am in my second week now of Hell.  Did I mention it is hot as fuck?  Must be hell then.  I can't shake this sadness.  I can fake it for a little while.  The worst part is that everyone says, it just takes time.  That may be true, in a month I could be a zombie.  But that sorta defeats the purpose of why I was with her in the first place.  I like feeling alive.  Unfortunately, the pain is something that goes with it.  I want to feel better without not giving a fuck about anything anymore.  Does that make sense?

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Blow shit up, get shit-faced (if thats your thing) and go do stupid shit.  Whatever you do don't go anywhere with a couple, you will want to kill them and your self all at the same time.

Take your new found free time and go on a road trip.  Go buy crap for yourself, buy a dog or cat, or snake.  Start an emo band.  Sleep around (preferably before the Emo band, emo chicks look like dykes so says the song.)  Buy a new car, get more chicks, come on over to New Jersey and hit up this town named Belmar, all college kids, damn fun.

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Wow..sorry to hear the news. But  you need to dig deep and realize, it's not the end of the world. Usually, I give myself time to just let it all out. Talking with friends and family has helped me overcome some of my most toughest moments. But I've learned that keeping myself distracted only prolonged the enevitability of having to deal with it. When I wasn't out with friends or family, or keeping myself busy, the quiet times at home killed me. That is, until I learned to accept it. I pretty much told myself...I managed to live without her before I met her, I can do it again. Realize, no matter how painful it is, that she's moved on..and so should you.

There's no need to torture yourself over the memories. I'm not saying forget them all, but take it as that...pleasant times spent with someone you felt so close to. Learn from both the good and the bad. Once I managed to accept it, I also made sure not to doubt myself. Cause doubt will lead you back to being pitiful...often times, calling her endlessly trying to figure out if I can convince her to give it another chance. Usually, it just doesn't happen that way which is the hard reality. But that's life right?

Also, now is the time to put your focus on YOU. You've spent so much time making sure things were cool for both of you. Now that you're all you've got, make sure you take care of yourself. Who knows who you might bump into or meet who might show you that there is a light at the end of the dark tunnel. Be confident with yourself and stop saying "what if...". You'll never get anywhere doing that. If you can honestly say you've done your best or even admit to some faults...but that you tried hard to make things work out and it didn't...then maybe it wasn't meant to be. Be proud you found it within you to share your life with someone else and don't think you weren't good enough to keep them. Knowing that, I am certain you can find someone later on who will appreciate you and show you that you can be happy with someone else. Like I said, your focus is YOU now so don't let yourself go. Don't forget who YOU are and go back to enjoying things you liked to do. It might force you to change your lifestyle a little bit but sometimes change is neccessary.

I promise you, once you've learned to accept it and deal with the pain...with each day that passes, it gets easier. Hang in there buddy!!!